For example, when someone is happy to show you the product he has painstakingly selected or the result of his work, you say some harsh truth to the other person.
However, in some social situations, telling the truth is likely to bring others down.
Therefore, when interacting with people, you not only need to learn to look at the occasion to speak, but also need to continue to learn speaking skills, exercise their ability to say different things in different occasions, even if suddenly cold, but also able to cope with freely.😀
People with high EQ know how to speak according to the situation and know when to say what is appropriate.
Even if you want to help others, you will pay attention to ways to make your opinions or suggestions more acceptable to the other person.
Good communication is based on being equal to each other, and no one likes to be around someone who is always telling them what to do.
Condescending means that the other person not only has to put up with you talking, but also because you are wasting time trying to prove that he is wrong.