Emotionally intelligent people, when talking with people, will follow the accurate and clear principles, grasp the sense of proportion, will not cause impatience of others.
Lu Xun once said: "Wasting other people's time for no reason is tantamount to murder."
The general truth is understood by everyone and does not need to be said too much.
In fact, whether the speech is charming is not to say more or less, but whether the words are sincere enough to express their views with reason.
Especially when persuading others, maybe you have the best intentions, but if it is too deep, make other people taboo, it is easy to make each other's feelings crack.
But sometimes, repeating it too many times doesn't help solve the problem, and it just makes people impatient.
After asking someone for help, out of fear, they will repeat their request in the other person's ear.
Many people, when faced with a difficult problem, will "neurotically" repeat over and over.
When speaking, learn to leave a blank, and only when the point is reached can you maintain a pleasant conversation atmosphere and not let others fall into embarrassment.