Emotionally intelligent people will choose to use "food topics" to break the ice.

Don't know what to talk about, then talk about food talk about travel.

At the same time, you can choose the appropriate topic according to the gender of the other person.

Your praise will make them feel very proud, and they will feel good about you and want to continue the conversation.

Therefore, when you are chatting with others, if you encounter a cold silence, you may as well use the topic of "food" or "travel" to save the emergency.

If the person is a man, you can start with "football", "cars" and other topics.

In fact, want to improve their emotional intelligence is not difficult, as long as you clear the bottom line of emotional intelligence - less cold water more praise, and then the body to implement, you will slowly become a popular person.

For example, if the person is a woman, you can start with topics such as "dressing" and "makeup".

The American psychologist William James once said: "The desire to be appreciated is the most basic human nature."

But in life, there are always such a group of people, no matter where they go like to pour cold water on others, but also always complain about their popularity is not good.