Some people think that joking is called humor, this understanding is actually very superficial.

Humor is not simply to tell a joke, or to make a funny move, it needs wisdom to support, at the right time, but also call people endless aftertaste, this is the real elegant humor.

Humor is not the same, it brings people smile is meaningful, let people aftertaste when it will still bloom knowing smile.

Joking is only a kind of superficial teasing, and even if it is not properly grasped, joking will become a disguised form of bullying and malicious mockery.

It is also because of this calm and open-minded, so even in the face of other people's hostile provocation, still able to respond in a funny way.

Take others as a "shield", you can let yourself out of the matter, it is a very clever way to decline.

A lot of times, we find it hard to say no because we're afraid that saying it will hurt our relationship.

Of course, in social situations, if you can use this method properly, you can save yourself from embarrassment.

However, if the reason for the failure to achieve the goal is not you, but the third person, you are also "unable to help", so that convenience will not hold a grudge against you.

In this way, when you use them as an excuse, the person who made the request to you will be embarrassed to continue to force you.