In this process, he will lead the other person to talk about the topic that is relevant to him or the other person is interested in.
People with high EQ will be smart to leave the initiative of the topic to the other person and become a qualified listener.
If it is a first date, it will make the other person feel "warm and intimate".
People have a deep desire to express themselves, and when they talk, they will focus on themselves and talk about topics that interest them.
If it is a first date, it will make the other person feel "warm and intimate".
Emotionally intelligent people can always create a topic when they first meet, and they can start a conversation with anything.
Of course, there are topics that can't be asked or better not asked, such as age, marital status, etc.
If the other person is middle-aged and elderly, you can talk about children and work; If the other person is young, you can talk about the game, talk about the dream.
You can also talk about hometown, talk about movies, it may not be very interesting, but it is better than awkward.
No matter what the topic, you can talk about it, even if there is a suspicion of "running train", but your fun makes everyone smile, and no one will criticize your flaws.