Of course, in addition to some things that must be rejected, they will also be very eager to help others.
To find someone to say "no" for yourself is not to shirk responsibility, but to appropriately weaken your status through the identity of others and express your refusal.
Emotionally intelligent people do not easily offend others in social situations.
Even if this "third person" is likely to be fictional, it can go a long way toward removing the discomfort of rejection.
Of course, in social situations, if you can use this method properly, you can save yourself from embarrassment.
In this way, when you use them as an excuse, the person who made the request to you will be embarrassed to continue to force you.
However, if the reason for the failure to achieve the goal is not you, but the third person, you are also "unable to help", so that convenience will not hold a grudge against you.
A lot of times, we find it hard to say no because we're afraid that saying it will hurt our relationship.
Take others as a "shield", you can let yourself out of the matter, it is a very clever way to decline.
The method of "transferring the attention to the third person" undoubtedly provides a new idea for many difficult people.