FIVE QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF IF YOU WANT TO BE VISIBLE.
Most people cannot answer more than one of these questions because they don't even know themselves.
If you can answer two of these questions, you are already ahead of 50% of people.
Here are 5 questions you should ask yourself in the pursuit of visibility.
What are my strengths and talents, and how can I showcase them to others?
What are my values and beliefs, and how can I authentically express them?
What are my goals and aspirations, and how can I take action to achieve them?
What are the things that make me unique, and how can I embrace and celebrate them?
What are the fears and doubts that hold me back, and how can I overcome them?
#GoVisible
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PAINFUL LESSONS ABOUT LIFE YOU NEED TO LEARN AND ACCEPT
The hurt caused by loved ones is the most painful because they are closest to you
Sometimes God will allow you to go through tough moments; not because He is punishing you, but to prepare you and mould you. Most valuable lessons are not learnt in comfort
Loving someone means putting yourself at risk of a heartbreak when you lose them, especially through death - but it is worth it
The trauma from your childhood that you don't heal from, can damage the blessings you were to enjoy in adult hood - heal
Sometimes you are the biggest reason keeping you from progressing. Stop looking for someone to blame, look at you
Your old age will be as good, as bad or as average as you prepare it during your energetic years
Many times you will give your all to your children but they often fail to appreciate, perhaps until they become parents themselves - love them with your all still
People who love you and try to correct you will eventually get tired of correcting you if you don't heed to advice
Time is the most precious commodity in life, ego and fear are its biggest threats. Ego will keep you from enjoying.
Let me tell you guys something today! Men communicate for information, and women communicate for affection. If you know this enh, you have known peace in your marriage. Eziokwu!
For instance enh when a man says he is having stomach pain, he knows where to find the pharmacy, and how to get himself some medicine. He is only informing you that his stomach aches, and that maybe now is not a good time to cooperate with your village people to stress his life. It is not 'sorry baby' he wants, he is just giving you an important information with an undertone of 'I have told you now oh, I need some rest.' No carry your disturbance near me.
But when my gender that performs miracles says she is having a stomach pain, she doesn't need you to panic to the pharmacy, she is first of all informing you that she needs your love and attention more than she needs that medicine. It is not the medicine she needs as your first response, the first aid she needs at the moment is your affection.
#GoodMorning
#HappyNewMonth
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