In fact, this is only one aspect. Emotionally intelligent people speak when they need to speak and when they need to be silent.
In the modern society, everyone wants to have a good eloquence, they believe that a person with high EQ can talk.
Also, the more reasons you list, the more the other person will think you're being defensive.
For example, when you encounter difficult things, if you refuse the other person in person, it will inevitably leave the impression that the other person is unkind.
Because they think that what they say to each other may be spread by him in the next second.
When interacting with people who are talkative, people will subconsciously guard the other person in their minds and will be reserved in their words.
This is not the case. Silence, it is a kind of power, it can give others a sense of security, can make your interpersonal relationship become more harmonious.