Learn to maintain a certain degree of loneliness in the crowd, and don't tell others immediately if you have any ideas. Also, never take what others say too seriously. You can't expect too much from others, either morally or ideologically. You should develop an attitude of indifference and indifference to other people's opinions, because this is one of the most practical means of cultivating praiseworthy tolerance.
When you are mature, you will pretend to be calm even if you are angry; you will try to smile even if you are unhappy; and you will not explain too much even if you care.
Life is only once for everyone. Living itself is a kind of luck, and happiness itself is a kind of happiness; there are no obstacles that cannot be overcome, no ravines that cannot be overcome, only a heart that cannot be overcome. No one can see whether the path we have taken is lucky or bumpy, right or wrong. Cherish the present and don’t regret it after you have passed it; be indifferent to perfection and take it lightly to have a good state of mind.
"Suddenly" is a good word. It seems that all lack of appreciation and being caught off guard can be attributed to suddenness. Suddenly summer passes, suddenly there is no summer vacation, suddenly you get something, suddenly you lose it, suddenly someone comes into your life, suddenly you lose someone, it seems like everything happens suddenly. Time defeats time, love defeats love, the one who loses is not others but oneself