Emotionally intelligent people, when getting along with people, do not beat around the bush, but they will also pay great attention to sense of proportion, do not mention others' shortcomings and pains, and will give others a step down.
You want others to take care of your self-esteem, then you should also make a corresponding contribution, don't say "I am this person, what I say" on the mouth, without considering other people's feelings.
Professor Strober of Yale University once said, the first sign of stupidity is egocentricity.
When dealing with people, you can show your frank character by telling the truth, but be sure to make appropriate choices according to the actual situation and not make the other person feel uncomfortable.
In order to make the trial fair, Western courts deliberately set up a "truth principle", that is, all witnesses must swear before appearing in court that what they say is the truth, and the whole truth.
Many people wonder, "Is it wrong to tell the truth? Are you telling lies?" Not so.