"The spirit is the same, the soul is the same."
I once met a man on a crowded subway
He was so much taller than me that I was only at his chest level
The first thing I saw was the Buddhist beads wrapped around his thin wrists
The subway was crowded, and I was very close to him.
I could smell the faint scent of soap on his body
And he was holding his arm out to give me a clear space.
I turned my back to him.
I clicked on WeChat and just stared at my page.
The transit station seems to be getting more crowded.
There's no space between people.
He should have looked at the signature under my avatar
The first thing he asked me was
"Do you also like Shi Tiesheng's "Sick Gap"?"
I was surprised and looked at him slightly sideways
I even felt that our breaths were about to entwine
God knows, at first
I just wanted to see his eyes
And for a moment.
I imagined the moment when I told him I would.
It's too fake to say forever.
There are moments between people that are enough
《被讨厌的勇气》里有一段话我很喜欢:“人生是不断与理想的自己进行比较,而不是活在他人的评价之下,我们不是为了满足别人的期待而活着,而是为了自己活出自己的人生。纵使被说坏话,被讨厌,也没什么好在意的,因为对方如何看待你,那是对方的课题”
我们一直以为 ,所谓告别,需要一场盛大的仪式,所以我们一直在等,等着一个温暖的拥抱,等着一场畅快的大醉,等着一声由衷的再见,等到最后我们才发现,人生中大部分的告别,都是悄无声息的,原来那一次的相聚,就已经是最后一面——《如此可爱的我们》