See things through without telling them off, know people without judging others, know the truth without arguing. Being mean and humorous are two different things, speaking out and being frank are two different things, being uneducated and being casual are two different things.
Having a social graph is a very basic need, and I have to admit its importance. This is the great thing about lens. However, users will have very little perception at this level. They will care more about the entertainment, practicality, and value exchange of a project.