In social situations, rejection is one of the main culprits for deteriorating relationships.
Many people tend not to consider the other person's feelings when they reject others.
After all, people cherish their face, and if they lose face in front of others, they will often become angry and may react unexpectedly.
Refusing others is undoubtedly a thing that will not only make each other unhappy, but also offend each other.
Such a "blunt" refusal, putting other people's self-esteem on the ground, it is easy to expose your low emotional intelligence.
Someone likes you, warmly confesses to you, your sentence "looks so ugly, but also dare to say like me" will put the other side's self-esteem at the foot of the foot.
Friends recently financial stress, want to borrow a little money with you for turnover, you say "no", just like a slap in the face of friends