Emotionally intelligent people consider others' feelings even when they criticize them.
And when a person does something wrong, it is best to criticize him in private when only the two of you, so that he can save enough face, he can better accept criticism and correct mistakes.
In life, we often say: "Praise in public, criticize in private." This means that when a person does something good, praise him in a public place so that he can be encouraged better.
If someone hurts their self-esteem, it tends to stir up their rebelliousness and thus hostility towards others.
Many times, when they know they are wrong, if they are "hit in the face" in public, they will refuse to accept it.
Criticizing and accusing others in public is very easy to create negative emotions in others.
People are usually not happy to be criticized. If the incident happened in public, then the person being criticized will be even more ashamed and angry.
Of course, if someone is making fun of you, you don't need to suffer in silence. "Take a man as he is," and you can use the same "humor" to fight back.