A person with a clean heart, clear thinking, no unnecessary emotions and paranoia will bring people a sense of security. Because he doesn't hurt. He doesn't hurt himself. Don't cause trouble, don't bother others. In a way, this is a holding of precepts.
Only the people who support you with money are the people who recognize you the most, the people who really want to help you, and there is never so much nonsense.
-- Maugham
To make trouble for others and pretend that nothing is wrong, either the spirit is particularly arrogant, or there is a beggar's nature.
-- Taizai Ji, The Loss of Human Status
These years the most sorry is their own, will do this, take care of that, only wronged themselves, and finally became a burst at any time, moody neuropathy.
People want to bet on anger, forget the original intention of things; Just want to anger others, forget also delayed their own.
What I want you to know is:
1. It's okay to let people down
2. Adults can be rejected
3. Your role isn't to please everyone all the time
4. You're not responsible for the emotions of other adults. That's their problem
What man wants to express is never what he says, but his desire to be understood.
The comfortable relationship between people is that they can not talk all the time, and they can talk at any time.
"I hardly ever talk to my mother about sad things. She rarely helps. She just can't sleep." There is no real empathy, but mom does, and your pain will be magnified on her many times.
A farmer comes to the city and doesn't understand the traffic rules, he's not stupid, he just doesn't understand what the traffic rules are.
When a city man goes to the countryside and can't tell wheat from rice, you can't say he's stupid, he just doesn't understand.
Therefore, we really hope that when we meet people with different views from our own, we can seek common ground while reserving differences, and do not have a sense of intellectual superiority.
The more places you travel, the more you get out of such a regional bias. The more you read, the more you will grow out of the prejudices of The Times.
