Indeed, in life there are many people often in a hot mind, agree to other people's various requests.
Laozi once said, "A promise is a promise." This means that people who make promises easily to others must be less trustworthy.
If you want to be popular in social situations, then you should pay attention to your speaking style, especially if the facts are not clear and the issues are wide ranging.
People with high EQ are very good at thinking in life; At the same time, whether they speak or act, they are able to remain rational and do not make "arbitrary" mistakes.
Many things aren't set in stone, and you don't have the ability to predict the future.
When he discusses a pending issue with others, he always reduces the opinions of others to nothing, arbitrarily and firmly believing that he is right, even if he does not know the final result and process of the matter.
When the famous American politician Benjamin Franklin was young, he liked to talk loudly in public places.
Also, when talking, use words like "some", "sometimes", "partly", or "from the current situation, I think..." "This is just my personal idea, not necessarily accurate", "my position is like this, perhaps very naive" and other statements, this kind of discussion tone, is easier to let the other party accept.