The ancients often say: "To meet people only talk three minutes, can not throw all the heart."

For the first time to meet or friendship is relatively shallow people, must pay attention to the sense of proportion.

Such a person, people will not praise his personality straight, only think that he is low in emotional intelligence.

This kind of behavior is very easy to attract other people's disgust.

There are also people who think that they have a good relationship with others, and openly talk about others' privacy in public to gain others' attention.

So can not read people's faces, it is low emotional intelligence.

Some people, when talking to others, talk endlessly, there is no room for others to interrupt, this behavior is very annoying.

Here "can talk" does not mean that a person talks endlessly, but when talking, understand the situation, look at the place, and be able to say the words to the point.

In life, people who can talk will always make more friends and be more popular in social situations.

Emotionally intelligent people know what to say and what not to say.