The so-called shortcuts are all the paths of others. Hard work is one's own path. In fact, the "shortcut" is the hardest to walk.
Originally, as long as a person has a heart throbbing, any standard conditions are just nonsense.
When a person no longer speaks freely to another person, most of the time it is that the heart has grown distant; when a person learns to bear silently, many times it is that the heart has grown cold. Love requires needing and being needed. It is happiness when someone loses their temper and acts willfully towards you; love is that you quarrel and I coax, and it is down-to-earth when someone has no scruples and does whatever they want in front of you. Love is a sweet interference, and you should understand it.
Bowing your head is not admitting defeat. It's to see your own path clearly. Looking up is not being proud. It's to see your own sky.
You have your way and I have mine. As for the appropriate way, the correct way and the only way, such ways do not exist.
There's nothing to complain about. All the experiences you have now are paying for your past.
Time has lost its balance point, and in my world, only yesterday remains.