Make a living when it's time to make a living, relax when it's time to relax, and enjoy life.
You never need to be grateful to the people who hurt you. Even if you do become stronger because of those things, it is not the credit of the person who stabbed you. The person who makes you better is yourself. It is you who did not give up on yourself after being injured. It has nothing to do with the person who hurt you. It is others who insert the knife, and it is yourself who draws the knife. And those who say "I'm doing this for your own good" while doing things that hurt you can only say: Fuck you.
Use friendship to write a book, a thick book. In the book, friendship is like pearls, we wear them together to form a string of bright necklaces; friendship is like colored silk, we cut it together and sew it into gorgeous clothes; friendship is like oil paint, we mix the colors together to depict the A wonderful picture.
Lotus, I love its simplicity and elegance, and also its rich colors. I like every aspect of it.