Some people think that joking is called humor, this understanding is actually very superficial.
Humor is not simply to tell a joke, or to make a funny move, it needs wisdom to support, at the right time, but also call people endless aftertaste, this is the real elegant humor.
Humor is not the same, it brings people smile is meaningful, let people aftertaste when it will still bloom knowing smile.
Joking is only a kind of superficial teasing, and even if it is not properly grasped, joking will become a disguised form of bullying and malicious mockery.
It is also because of this calm and open-minded, so even in the face of other people's hostile provocation, still able to respond in a funny way.
So, if you want to both win the other person's favor and help them correct their mistakes, learn to use hint.
Many people often worry about how to say no to others, so as not to hurt each other's feelings.
For example, you can show the other person the right way to do it so that the other person can clearly see the difference.
This will not obviously deny others, maintain each other's face, and can achieve their own goals.
In social situations, using hints to remind others of their mistakes gives each other a way out and won't cause tension if you point out the other person's mistakes.