As the saying goes, "to forgive others and forgive others", if you ignore the feelings of others, habitually to attack, to criticize, even if you are reasonable, it will be disgusting.
In life, some people always like to hold on to other people's mistakes, an aggressive attitude.
In many cases, the more calmly you deal with a problem, the more you can persuade and intimidate the other side.
If you want to become a person with high EQ, you should keep a calm attitude, speak at the right pace, and speak at the right volume.
In the long run, it will make you form a bad habit of thinking shallow and emotions are easy to lose control.