People who really care about you will be picky when nothing happens, but will hold your hand and say nothing when something happens. Watch you through good times and support you through adversity. Three or two people in life are enough.
It's yours if it's yours. It's not yours, don't force it. Work hard, cherish it, and have a clear conscience. I'll leave the rest to fate.
We all need to learn some "meow spirit" from cats: if someone is playing with us, we will play enthusiastically; if there is no one to play with, we will get high by ourselves; if there is cat food, we can enjoy it as much as we can; if there is nothing to eat, we will wander around and get food by ourselves. Being able to be happy means being lonely; having nine lives means being extremely tough.