Paris, I agree with you 100%.
I come from a family of strong women, and I think you and I unfortunately share the same pain.
As Iranians, we understand what happens to a society when the rights of its women are violated. It opens the door to hell. A society without women’s rights diminishes and dies.
However, I would like to bring to your attention that harassment and bullying are not exclusively male phenomena, and I had to learn this the hard way here on Lens.
I’ve been personally targeted for excessive harassment and defamation by certain individuals on this platform to an extent that I even considered seeking legal help. Now, what does my story have to do with your post?
I just want to bring to your attention that certain individuals on this platform are using the umbrella of feminism and the idea that “girls can do whatever they want” to systematically defame, attack, and destroy the reputation of other users in such unfair ways that you can’t even imagine. And when people try to defend themselves, they are labeled as misogynists or worse. I’m sure you can imagine how frustrating this can be for the person in that situation.
I’ve always been a defender of women’s rights, especially given my background. People should be measured by their actions and not by their gender. That is not up for debate.
But please, let’s also make sure that we build a platform where everyone is protected and believed equally, regardless of their gender.
Let’s always listen to both sides and let’s not support actors who use the good intentions you stated in your post as a loophole to ruin the reputation of anyone they wish.