Write my recent experience here. When we depend on one person, we don't grow. To be strict will hinder our progress. Because you don't judge yourself what's important. Afraid to...
if you assume a linear reality, you can go backwards, you can stand still, or you can go forwards. However, life is much more complex. There is no single path, no single goal, everything is fluid, changing constantly. Maybe at the beginning of the path we have this feeling, but the longer we walk, we understand that it's not about us, it's not about our goals and our achievements, because they won't fill us up.